The (brief) Decade in Review:
When I reflect on the last decade some huge changes have taken place in my life. There have definitely been some of the highest highs and the lowest lows.
Highs
1. Graduating from College and setting off for my European adventure. Little did I realise nearly 8 1/2 years later I would still be living in Ireland - the country where I had a work permit for only 4 months.
2. Making a home with my wonderful husband and having a beautiful daughter.
3. Undertaking a MA in Women's Studies. That really helped me to solidify what I wanted to 'do' with my life.
4. Things associated with my PhD - earning partial funding, being accepted for publication on my first peer-reviewed journal article, the opportunity to teach. All stepping stone towards my career.
Lows
1. Losing both of my Grandparents. When longevity runs in your family you feel like people will live forever. The loss of my Grandmother Marcelina (2003) crushed me and I still think about her everyday. The passing of my Grandfather (2006) was equally as devestating. I am lucky that in 2001 I was able to care for them full time, it gave me the opportunity to really know them as people not just as grandparents.
2. Periods of unemployment - my last stretch nearly exceeded a year. That was very difficult and quite demoralising.
3. Moving away from my family and friends. If I had a crystal ball and could have known how difficult it would be I wouldn't have done it. If I could have talked to my present day self and really understood the sadness I would feel when I think about raising my daughter away from them I would have decided differently. But I suppose now I have to make the best of it.
4. Breaking my ankle in 3 places - and all the pain and frustration that goes with learning how to walk again.
But all in all each and every of these experiences makes my life richer and enhances my sense of self.
Oh I almost forgot - one more personal high for 2009...
I am pregnant with my second child!
Here's hoping that 2010 will bring a happy and prosperous New Year and a healthy baby for our family.
